Some couples do more rehearsals on the wedding ceremony than on the consummation of the wedding. It may make their parents proud, their religious authorities boast. But no-one but the virgin brides and (perhaps) grooms get to lie in the bed that they made. And sometimes that bed is less sexy than it might have been with a bit more preparation.
Bravo, Dr Raj Brahmbhatt. It can’t be easy to say that sex before marriage makes for better sex after marriage, even if it is true. Its even tougher to say it in a place where most marriages are planned and there isn’t even much talk before marriage. But if someone is brave enough to shout it out in India, we sure as hell can echo it everywhere else on this planet.
The fact is that human sexuality is not instinctive, nor is our imagination and will for comparison meant to be stifled. For every abstinence-preacher who shows me an STD (which I am not convinced was sent by God to punish gays and godless bohemians), I’ll show them a bunch of sexual dysfunctions that could have been avoided.
I can’t be sure what will be in the next worlds, but the sex-fearing masses should hope that they are not asked to justify why they failed to celebrate their God-given clitorises and other sexual parts.